BLI: generally improve C++ data structures

The main focus here was to improve the docs significantly. Furthermore,
I reimplemented `Set`, `Map` and `VectorSet`. They are now (usually)
faster, simpler and more customizable. I also rewrote `Stack` to make
it more efficient by avoiding unnecessary copies.

Thanks to everyone who helped with constructive feedback.

Approved by brecht and sybren.

Differential Revision: https://developer.blender.org/D7931